When ask from most women, they we indeed a bit afraid of their first time and experience of having see.
Some questions women asked and think in their mind are, will I enjoy it? Will it hurt? How will I feel? Will I satisfy my man? Is he the right person?
The fact is that the first few times having see will not be remembered as the best sex ever. Women agree that the first time often hurts a little, is uncomfortable and is often very clumsy. When women ready, the very first thing to consider is the person are with.
The first time to be with someone you really care for and the really cares for you in return. Some women rush and copy what their colleagues are doing or because their boyfriend is expecting it.
Neither of these should be a make sure that you will not regret the decision later. Some questions you need to ask yourself are, can I trust my partner with my life? Can I see myself having a long-term relationship with this person? Is he pressuring me? Is having sex for me, or for someone else.?
Adage says when you are not ready don't go down for it. Virginity must be considered by the guy you really cares for you enough, he will understand that this is a big decision, and you must not rush it. Don't go down for a guy who is worried more about his own satisfaction not considering your feelings.
The memory of first sex experience should be extremely special between both partners.
I wish you best of luck in all your future endeavor.